"....In Which Lennon Throws a Flag On The Play...."

So, I was on the bus ride home when I ran into a sister I hadn't seen in ages. We met once, exchanged numbers and had a few productive conversations about possibly getting together. However, the timing was bad and I'd just started seeing someone (one of the only exes that I still respect), so we eventually lost touch. She seemed to not have changed much (to her credit), so I exchanged a few words with her and she inevitably asked for my new number. Later that evening, we engaged in a small bit of conversation. This is part of that exchange.....


Her: So, what've you been up to?

Me: Oh, same old same old....the job's treating me okay. Same with the writing. Other than that, nothing special.

Her: Lucky you. I'm looking for bigger pay, better job. My job is steady so it's not a rush, but I'm always about advancement.

Me: Well, just stay positive. It'll work out for you.

Her: It had better! Do you know how hard I work?

Me: I can imagine.

Her: I want to live well and guarantee my future for myself and my future children.

Me: That's commendable.

Her: That's reality. I don't know if marriage is the plan but children definitely are so I have to grind now so I can enjoy them later.

**Blows Whistle** Umm..."I don't know if marriage is the plan, but children definitely are..." What?! Do you want a baby or a puppy? I understand that shit happens. People  have children with people that shouldn't be in a relationship with ALL THE TIME (seriously...watch MTV for a day), but I'm skeptical about women that knowingly want to sign a child up for a one parent household. I'm just saying....beware.